What Controls You?

Every day we face choices that come from different places. Sometimes our feelings guide us. Sometimes our thoughts or our goals move us. Fears can hold us back, and rules from others can push us. This quiz will help you see which one guides you most. It will show what really controls what you do, even when you think you decide alone.

Question 1 of 10

1. You’re asked to lie to help a friend. You:

Think about consequences first.

Lie because it feels thrilling.

Lie without hesitation—they’re your friend.

Don’t lie—you’re too scared of getting caught.

Ask what others in your group are doing.

Question 2 of 10

2. A friend breaks a promise. You:

Talk it through and ask why.

Cut them off immediately.

Feel hurt, but think about how to use this for your benefit.

Keep them around—you don’t want to be alone.

Forgive them because you think it's expected.

Question 3 of 10

3. You're offered a risky but high-paying job. You:

Worry about failing and decide not to risk it.

Say yes, chasing the excitement.

Accept impulsively—feels like the right move.

Make a pros/cons list and decide based on analysis.

Ask mentors or family what you should do.

Question 4 of 10

4. You get a harsh email from your boss. You:

Feel your blood boil and immediately reply.

Re-read it twice and wait for instructions.

Freeze and avoid replying for hours.

Analyze the email, check facts, and craft a calm response.

Start fantasizing about quitting and living free.

Question 5 of 10

5. You're offered easy money for something unethical. You:

Take the deal, chasing the high.

Check if someone higher up would approve.

Think long-term and decline.

Feel tempted and conflicted.

Say no, fearing consequences.

Question 6 of 10

6. Someone insults you in public. You:

Say nothing, just shrink inside.

De-escalate and defuse the situation.

Get angry but walk away, daydreaming revenge.

Wait for someone in charge to intervene.

Snap back instantly.

Question 7 of 10

7. Your partner threatens to leave you. You:

Flirt with someone else to feel powerful again.

Beg and promise anything to keep them.

Agree to whatever they want.

Try to calmly discuss the issues.

Break down emotionally.

Question 8 of 10

8. You're given 24 hours to start something you've always wanted. You:

Plan the steps and get started immediately.

Doubt yourself and procrastinate.

Feel overwhelmed but push through emotionally.

Jump in full of adrenaline.

Ask if others think it’s a good idea.

Question 9 of 10

9. A major life decision must be made quickly. You:

Go with your gut feeling.

Avoid deciding at all.

Ask someone you trust to decide.

Make a structured, logical choice.

Pick the most exciting option.

Question 10 of 10

10. You’re lost in a foreign city. You:

Open a map and plan your way back.

Stay in place, afraid to make it worse.

Panic and curse your luck.

Wander around hoping for an adventure.

Look for a uniformed person to ask.

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